I hope that I can get some help or if not I desperately need to be able to
talk about how after being married for over 20 years that
now there is a third "person"( gambling ) and it is tearing me apart.
Each time I have tried to talk to my husband about his gambling, he has
turned on me with such anger and resentment.
He said the reason he gambles is that it relaxes him.
And he adamantly said he does not want me to question him on this again.
Meanwhile, we owe money to the I.R.S and are facing our lease to end on
our current home, and really need to save money so that we can afford to
move in three months.
I just feel lost....